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In Memory of Helen Razo
Dec 14, 1940 ~ May 5, 2003
The San
Diego Native American community came out in unity to pay respect to
Helen Razo who passed away May 5, 2003
Helen
Helen Razo was known and loved by the tight-knit Native American
community that she embraced
Helen, a lifelong resident of
the area had deep historical roots in San Diego. Her Great
Grandmother May Olivas settled in Old Town in
the late 1700’s. where her Grand mother Lola
(Dolores) Mayer was born.. Her Great Aunt Nellie Marquez lived in
one of the oldest houses in Old Town. Both her Mother and
Grandmother attended San Diego High School.
Although
her Mother and Father
were Catholic Beatrice and Manuel Olivas. held on to traditional
values of the Kumeaay Mother Kueamaay Helen and
sister Patricia Solomon.
Known and
loved by the tight-knit
Native American community that she embraced
Helen extended hospitality to all.
The eulogy
at the grave site where Helen was laid to rest on top of her mother
at Holy Cross cemetery was given by Sandra
Urban:
Helen Mae
Razo was born on December 14, 1940 in San Diego, CA.
She
attended Logan Elementary, Memorial Jr. High and graduated from San
Diego High School.
As a young
girl she was very active in sports, especially softball, and joined
neighborhood clubs. She always attended the dances that were put on
by these clubs. She loved to dance. History tells it that she was
one of the best dancers of her peers.
She met
Paul Razo during her high school years; they fell in love and were
married as soon as she graduated from high school. She had three
children; Paul Jr., Deborah, and Cynthia who died of infant death
syndrome.
During her
years on earth she had a lot of medical problems, but she never lost
her love of life. Helen was always a pleasant and loving person to
family and friends. She never had a bad thing to say about anyone.
Helen and
Paul became very active with the Native American Indian community
after her employment with the American Indian Education Program.
Helen and her husband were always willing to volunteer with the
activities and POW WOW’s, put on by the program. The rumor had it,
that they made the best Indian tacos around. They had also joined
the Fraternal Order of Eagles, and were very active in this as well
Helen has
six grandchildren; Sofia, Tony, Paul Jr.,
Rachael, Pete and Cynthia. They always wanted to be around her
because of her warmth, patience, and love that she showed them. She
was always attending their sports, graduation, and all activities
that se could.
She was
loved by so many and will greatly be missed b all that had the
opportunity to know her.
According
to Helen's sister Patricia Solomon, Helen was quite daring in her
younger years.
While
playing softball she took advantage of her position as outfielder to
smoke cigarettes, feeling that the distance from
the bleachers offered her security from being detected
Unbeknownst to her on one occasion her parents brought binoculars to
watch the game and observed Helen. When confronted by her mother
Helen asked? "How did you know?" Her mother pointed to the
binoculars and said "These don't lie?"
A Rosary
was held at Goodbody Mortuary on
El Cajon blvd. And the Mass Our Lady Of Guadeloupe Church
Expression
of caring flowed from the community. Anita…..made the following
statement:
Not having
known Helen for very long I knew, as all that knew her that she was
a special person, that remains so in our hearts and we can all feel
a little more special for having known her. Helen gave tirelessly of
her time and talent but greater yet she gave graciously of herself,
freely from her heart and always with openness and love
to all people of all
ages all
races all cultures "Corinthians 13:13 and now abideth faith hope and
love these three; but the greatest of these is love... you gave the
greatest gift Helen so you are greatly remembered and you will be
greatly missed.
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